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After Many Days

Impatience is something I fight constantly. I’m the sort of person that once I know what I want, I expect to be able to obtain it as soon as possible, usually by doing some small task and then being done with it. I find it difficult to wait. 2 people like this post. Like Unlike

Heart and Soil

In a Sunday School lesson I attended, the question was asked, “How do we overcome the influence of Satan in our lives?” Though I didn’t specifically hear any wrong answers, I was frustrated that they all had the same basic tone: just decide you are going to not do what he wants you to. 1 […]

Quitting. Again.

I’m not in a great place in my head right now. I’m a little bit of a mess — not nearly as much of a mess as I’ve been the last month or so, but still a bit of a mess. I’m writing this now because some of the folks who come here are a […]

“My Precious, My Stash, My Precious”

For where your treasure is there your heart will be also. Gnolom, from Lord of the Rings, his treasure consumed him, it twisted his soul, it corrupted him, and it was ultimately his destruction. My treasure was my porn, and not just any porn, but my “stash”. This was the best of the best; it took countless hours, and effort to collect it.

How to Comment

Commenting around here requires surmounting two barriers to entry. The first, and simplest, is the technical requirements for leaving a comment. The second, and hardest, has to do with finding one’s voice and being willing to talk about the topics this website is about. Be the first to like. Like Unlike

From Muck to Miracles

A Personal Story by Joe H. I was first exposed to pornography around the age of nine. I was also sexually abused by a teenage girl around that same time. Because of these things and my own curiosity I developed a voyeuristic interest in sex and the female body. I was afraid of my parents’ […]

Are You Addicted?

What Are the Signs of Sexual Addiction /Compulsion Please read through these questions below. If you find yourself answering yes frequently, you may be sexually addicted/compulsive. There questions are specific and may be a little uncomfortable. If you think that you have a problem, please know that there is hope and a way back. Be […]

Treatment and Healing of Pornographic and Sexual Addictions

by Dr.Victor B. Cline, PhD – April 1999 (used with permission) In over 25 years I have treated approximately 350 males afflicted with sexual addictions (sometimes referred to as: sexual compulsions). In about 94% of the cases I have found that pornography was a contributor, facilitator or direct causal agent in the acquiring of these […]

An Equal Harm

An Analysis of Acting In Behavior based on Patrick J. Carnes’ Don’t Call It Love Patrick J. Carnes, Ph.D. Don’t Call It Love February 1992, Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group Paperback, 390pp. ($15.95 US) Be the first to like. Like Unlike